Saturday, 19 June 2010

Should we have high expectations?

Someone was cautioned me to be careful in setting high expectations in particular in relation to other people, as 'expectations only set you up for a fall!'. These words of caution were shared in good faith in response to a time when I felt disappointed when a set of expectations did not happen! When I thought about this, my high expectations had been unspoken and I kind of expected others to have the same high standards as myself, but allas this is not always the case. That said, I remain optimistic as I believe most people try and when I see that people try their best, that's good enough for me. This week I experienced such joy and delight when an idea I had came to fruition above and beyond my expectations. A drama performance to raise the profile of patient experiences and how little things matter in caring was part of a conference that coincided with National Carers week - check out:
http://www.nursing.salford.ac.uk/news/newsitem?id=747
Amazing! I am sticking with high expectations and will just manage the outcomes differently, in other words prepare for a soft landing not a fall!!

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